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Am I Anxious or Do I Have Anxiety? How to Tell the Difference Between Anxiety vs Anxiety Disorders

Jan 1, 2024 | Uncategorized

Feeling anxious is a part of life. Whether it’s the jitters before a job interview, the heart-racing jolt you get speaking in front of a crowd, or the flutter in your stomach when you’re exploring somewhere new, we’ve all been there. But when do these feelings cross the line from normal anxiety to something more significant? It’s a question worth asking, especially considering that 1 in 3 American adults will experience an anxiety disorder at some point in their lives. So, how can you tell the difference between normal, everyday nerves and the kind that might signal a deeper mental health concern?

Natural Response or Red Flag?

Anxiety is like your body’s built-in alarm system. You might notice your heart racing, your breath quickening, and your muscles tensing when you’re feeling anxious. This happens because your body is activating its stress response – a rush of adrenaline and cortisol boosts your heart rate and breathing, priming you for ‘fight or flight.’ It’s an ancient survival mechanism that kept our ancestors alert and ready for potential dangers. 

In many ways, anxiety is beneficial – it sharpens our attention, enhances problem-solving, motivates us, and signals potential threats. It’s a natural, adaptive response designed to protect us. But when this feeling becomes overwhelming or persistent, interfering with your day-to-day life, it might point to a deeper issue.

Anxiety Triggers: Perception vs. Reality

Anxiety often springs to life in response to a perceived threat – and the keyword here is ‘perceived.’ It’s not necessarily about facing a life-or-death situation; it’s about what your mind interprets as a threat, even in safe or mundane circumstances. Our fight-or-flight system, a relic of our evolutionary past, was designed to protect us from physical dangers. But in today’s world, where threats are less about physical survival and more about complex social scenarios, our body’s alarm system can misfire.

A vague email can be perceived as a threat

Take, for instance, a simple, vague email from your boss saying, ‘We need to talk.’ Even though it’s just an email, your brain might leap to worst-case scenarios. This is thanks to our ingrained negativity bias, a survival tactic from our past that makes us hyper-aware of potential dangers.

While an email from your boss is far from a saber-toothed tiger attack, your body might still react as if it were, triggering the familiar fight-or-flight response even though there’s no real danger. In today’s technologically advanced and socially complex world, this ancient adaptation misinterprets modern stressors like an ambiguous email as life-threatening, leading to a state of heightened anxiety. This mismatch can lead to what feels like an overreaction or, in modern terms, anxiety. It’s essentially your body’s alarm system being a little too eager, interpreting everyday stressors as extreme dangers.

Everyday Anxiety: A Useful Tool in Moderation

Think of ‘normal’ anxiety as a helpful nudge from your brain, pushing you to be prepared and vigilant. For instance, feeling anxious about a work presentation can motivate you to prepare thoroughly, practice your delivery, and maintain focus, ultimately leading to a successful performance. Similarly, anxiety about getting lost on a hiking trip might lead you to take sensible precautions like packing extra gear, familiarizing yourself with the route, and staying vigilant for potential dangers.

Here’s what sets ‘normal’ anxiety apart

  • Temporary Nature: It typically subsides after the stressful event or circumstances are over. For example, nervousness before a presentation usually eases once it’s successfully delivered.
  • Manageable Intensity: While it may be uncomfortable, ‘normal’ anxiety doesn’t paralyze you. You might feel apprehensive about meeting new people at a social event, but it doesn’t stop you from going and interacting with others. The key is that your reaction is proportionate to the situation.
  • Specific Focus: This anxiety is often linked to particular events or situations, like anticipating medical test results, going on a first date, starting a new job, or speaking in public.

Example of ‘normal’ anxiety

You might wake up anxious about a big presentation – stomach churning, heart racing, playing out different scenarios in your head. But once it’s over, your body and mind return to their normal state. This kind of anxiety is a natural, adaptive response that keeps you alert and prepared but does not overstay its welcome.

Identifying Anxiety Disorders: Beyond Normal 

Here’s when anxiety becomes something more

Anxiety disorders differ significantly from the ‘normal’ anxiety we all experience. Here’s how:

  • Persistence: Unlike normal anxiety, which dissipates after the stressor passes, anxiety disorders are characterized by chronic, ongoing worry. They persist even when the specific trigger is no longer present, leaving individuals in a constant state of heightened anxiety, regardless of actual danger.
  • Debilitating Intensity: The level of anxiety experienced is often unrealistic and disproportionate to the situation. It can be so intense that it interferes with daily life. For instance, an extreme fear of bridges might prevent someone from driving over a perfectly safe and structurally sound bridge despite no visible signs of danger. 
  • Generalized or Unfocused: While normal anxiety usually has a specific focus, anxiety disorders can manifest as a generalized, pervasive worry, often without a clear cause. It might manifest as a general sense of dread or a feeling that something bad is going to happen, without any specific reason. These intrusive thoughts can persist for days, hindering their ability to think, react, or behave normally.

In essence, anxiety disorders are marked by their lasting nature, overwhelming, uncontrollable intensity, and often generalized focus, significantly impacting a person’s daily life and well-being.

Example of anxiety disorder

You’ve delivered a successful work presentation, but instead of feeling relief, your mind is still racing with worry. Days later, you’re unable to focus on other tasks because you’re fixated on a minor mistake you made. You start avoiding assignments that require speaking out for fear of judgment, despite positive feedback. Your sleep is disrupted by intrusive thoughts about your performance, and the dread of future presentations is so intense, it’s all you can think about.

When It’s More Than Just Nerves

Anxiety, in moderate doses, can be a performance enhancer. Research shows that athletes often perform better with a touch of pre-match nerves – it keeps them sharp and focused. However, when anxiety intensifies, it can backfire, diminishing performance and causing distress.

Anxiety disorders go beyond typical stress reactions. They’re characterized by symptoms that significantly impair your daily life. Here’s what to watch for:

Psychological Symptoms:

  • Excessive Worry and Fear: Constantly feeling on edge about everyday activities that feels overwhelming or out of control
  • Irritability and Tension: Frustration or disproportionate irritability to minor issues.
  • Concentration Challenges: Difficulty focusing due to racing or intrusive anxious thoughts and uncomfortable body sensations.
  • Restlessness and Apprehension: A persistent sense of dread or unease that may ebb and flow but never disappears.
  • Doubts About Abilities: Constantly questioning your capability to handle tasks.
  • Nervousness and Low Mood: Frequent feelings of sadness, low self-worth, or worry.
  • Detachment and Dissociation: Feeling disconnected from yourself or your surroundings.

Physical Symptoms:

  • Sweating, Flushing, Dizziness
  • Heart Palpitations or shortness of breath.
  • Unexplained tightness or pain in your chest
  • Nausea and stomachaches
  • Headaches
  • Random ‘pins and needles’ sensations.
  • Sleep Disturbances or insomnia

Additional Resources:

What are Anxiety Disorders – American Psychological Association

Signs and Symptoms of Specific Anxiety Disorders – National Institute of Mental Health

 

Do any of these scenarios sound familiar?

  • Avoiding Work Due to Anxiety: Calling in sick because the thought of going to work is overwhelming.
  • Social Withdrawal: Skipping social events due to uncontrollable anxious feelings.
  • Relationship Struggles: Anxiety hindering your ability to maintain healthy relationships.
  • Persistent Worrying: Inability to enjoy life because of relentless worry.
  • Sleepless Nights: Lying awake with an overactive, worrying mind.
  • Daily Dysfunction: Being so distracted by dread that it hampers your ability to perform simple tasks.

If these experiences resonate with you, it might be time to consider whether you’re dealing with normal levels of anxiety or something more.

Empowering Yourself: Knowing When to Seek Support

Understanding the distinction between normal anxiety and an anxiety disorder is a powerful step in managing your mental health. Normal anxiety is typically a short-term, stress-related response that doesn’t lead to significant distress. It’s proportional to the situation and usually resolves once the stressor passes. In contrast, an anxiety disorder is more persistent, often feeling out of proportion to the circumstances, and can hinder your ability to participate in daily life.

By identifying when your anxiety shifts from a normal response to an area of concern, you gain the power to act. This self-awareness is your first tool in seeking the right support. Whether it’s reaching out to EFR’s Employee Assistance Program or other mental health resources, seeking help is a sign of resilience and strength. It’s an important step in nurturing not just your mental health and well-being but your overall quality of life.

From coffee to soda to energy drinks, caffeine is a part of daily life for many of us. And while it is naturally occurring, overconsumption can cause health problems such as increased blood pressure, heart palpitations, anxiety, headaches, and insomnia. For this blog, we sat down with Susie Roberts, a Registered Dietitian to discuss all things caffeine—why it’s such a big part of our lives, how much of it is in the food items many people enjoy regularly, and how much is too much. We’ll also talk about current trends and tips on how to boost your energy naturally so you can stop relying on caffeine to keep you energized throughout the day.

Q: Just this morning, I heard someone say “I’m not caffeinated enough for this day!” It really is such a big part of our daily lives. Why do you think that is?
A: It’s not surprising at all to hear that! About 90% of American adults consume caffeine daily. People are looking for ways to boost their energy and increase alertness and caffeine is readily available and socially acceptable.

Q: So, what exactly is caffeine, and how does it work?
A: Caffeine is a natural stimulant that affects the central nervous system. After consumption, it’s absorbed into the bloodstream and travels to the brain, where it blocks the effects of adenosine—a chemical that promotes sleep. This interference helps you feel more alert and awake.

Caffeine typically reaches your brain within 15 minutes, peaks in the bloodstream at 30 to 120 minutes, and has a half-life of 3 to 7 hours.

Q: Everyone knows that coffee and many soft drinks contain caffeine. But where else can it be found? If we are consuming these beverages and other items, how can we know the amount of caffeine we are getting?
A: Energy drinks have become very popular—especially among young adults. These contain not only caffeine, but may also have added sugars, so it’s a double whammy. Chocolate and many varieties of tea also contain caffeine. You may also want to check out any nutrition supplements or medications you are taking. And, many people may not realize it, but even decaf coffee contains a certain amount of caffeine.

How Much Caffeine Am I Really Getting

Q: How much is too much when it comes to caffeine?
A: For most healthy adults, the FDA says up to 400 mg per day is safe. That’s about 4 cups of coffee. But you need to remember, that’s based on an 8 oz cup. Many people order an extra-large coffee, so you need to be aware of exactly how much you are taking in. Each individual reacts differently to caffeine based on their genetics, medications, and sleep habits.

How Much Is Too Much? Make Sure You Know Your Limits.

Q: What are the current trends in caffeine consumption?
A: As I mentioned before, energy drinks are increasing in popularity. They haven’t taken over coffee in the top spot, but Americans spent $19.2 billion on them in 2023 and that’s expected to rise to $33 billion by 2030. Coffee remains at the top, accounting for 69% of total caffeine intake, an increase of 15% in the last decade. And while the number of tea drinkers has dropped by 50%, those who drink it are consuming more.

Current Caffeine Consumption Trends.

Q: How can I be more aware about the amount of caffeine I’m getting?
A: Mindful consumption of caffeine is being intentional about what, when, and how much you consume. Track your intake and pay attention to any potential unwanted side effects like jitters or difficulty getting to sleep or staying asleep. Are you sleeping 6-8 hours a night and waking refreshed? If not, consider a “hard stop” 10 hours before your bedtime. Remember, that cup of coffee you had at 8 am can potentially still be in your system at 5 pm, so it’s important to time it right. And finally, if you decide you want to reduce your caffeine consumption, do it slowly to minimize any withdrawal symptoms such as headaches.

Be Mindful of Your Caffeine Consumption.

Q: Sometimes though, you need extra energy when you hit that afternoon slump. Can you suggest any alternative ways to get that boost and avoid turning to caffeine?
A: There are a few simple ways you can get that energy boost. First, make sure you are hydrated. Water supports joint health, oxygen delivery, temperature regulation, skin health, and more. You also want to move—even a short walk or stretch break can help. Make sure your meals are balanced with a protein and complex carbs. And most importantly, rest and recover. Sometimes rest—not more coffee—is what your body needs.

How Can I Boost My Energy Naturally.

Q: So, what are your final thoughts on caffeine?
A:  Caffeine can be part of a healthy lifestyle and may even offer some health benefits—but it’s all about balance and awareness. If you’re reaching for that third cup of coffee at 3 pm, pause and ask: Am I actually tired, hungry, or just in a habit? And then give one of the things we talked about a try, to get that energy boost naturally and see if that caffeine craving goes away.

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